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    May 16

    forgive and forget...

    This is the first blog on my space... dunno why... but really feel like writing recently.... probably because it 's not easy to open up and talk as we grow older..... friends  are probably still close to heart..... just that everyone is too busy to share...... (helen / oo , I'm sure you'll be happy if you have any chance to read this - yes yes i have started writing finally !)
     
    one good thing about msn is that it allows you to keep in touch with your loved ones... guess what ? my little sis gets online too.... feel so happy everytime i see her online. time flies and can't believe that she's now old enough to have her own ups and downs. The worries  of the little gal is no different from ours.... she 's upset becoz her friends have said something untrue about her. i can tell that it hurts, since i have experienced that many times in life  too... i mean, who don't have that experience in life? well... being a big sister, i actually told her to " forgive and forget"... as i type those words on the screen... i suddenly realise that i can't really do that myself... that 's just ridiculous....  i always pray for the strength to do that, but trust me, that 's not easy. sometimes we can forgive, but we don't forget ; other times we forget, but we don't really forgive... the world will be a better one if we can all forgive and forget......
     
     
    still remeber one time when i felt so so bad and asked someone to forgive me... the answer i got was one that i will never forget - " i just never blame you..."